Hi everyone! Hope you are well in your little corner of the world ! I am well albeit a little down now winter has a hold of Ontario…and to be honest I have a hard time with November! Why you ask? Is it the darker days,christmas shopping hanging over my head ? All of that I guess but mostly it’s the month that my Mom and Dad passed over as well as my beloved pooch Tika who I talked about in one of my first posts. My Dad served in WW2, so remembrance day makes me think of him and the unspeakable trials he and countless others endured…So it’s kind of a melancholy month .
BUT….I’m good and busy so all is well. Sometimes you just have to acknowledge the sadness and let it go …I’m a very positive person most of the time so it’s pretty easy to focus on the good in my life ! I read an article the other day ,written by an elderly women about aging …it was really thought provoking so thought I would share my thoughts on the subject…
What does aging mean to me ….first I still feel youngish …lol…and I try to stay active and eat well. I take 3 yoga classes a week with a couple of different teachers,walk and alot, well now I’ve found a kindred spirit at my Bookclub who is also an earlybird and loves to fast walk so we are getting out for 4to6 kilometer walks more often and my old walking partner and I get out once or twice a week.
In order to age well we need to keep fit ! I can do a balance pose in yoga no problem and power walk for an hour or more with no pain. Falling is a huge issue for the elderly but if we keep our backs ,abs and glutes strong and maintain good balance we can prevent alot of falls and broken bones !
Eating a clean diet of few processed foods , scratch cooking and limiting alcohol and of course no smoking keeps our insides going strong !

As for the mental aspects, I have always felt very blessed and happy about getting older , so many people aren’t given the opportunity. My sister passed at 37, too young for sure but I also believe in life after death and soul purpose so I know she is with me always .
My Mom always told my sister and brother and I to not tell anyone her age …she said people judge you by your age . I was confused by this as a child because it sounded so negative and of course I thought she was so wise and beautiful!
Fast forward a few decades and I will proudly tell anyone who asks how old I am ,😁 64 years young! My Granchildren think I’m ancient which to them I am but my 6 year old Grandaughter said last night that Nana knows everything ! Lol…so there is that ,we have lived, learned and sometimes the lessons have been tough, but most important for me is I’ve learned to let alot of stuff go!
Yes I get upset or angry at people but I have a rant and then move on . I’ve learned to not hold grudges…honestly they just weigh you down and make you bitter! We live in a country built on immigration and all those people from so many different parts of our planet arrive with their customs, foods and ideas that make Canada a very diverse and rich country . My parents lived in Richmond BC for 35 years ,that’s on Canadas west coast and it was what I called the United Nations city! They had a rental home beside them that saw people from all over the world stay for a few months or years at a time . Fiji, China, Austria, and my Mom loved it ! She learned about their food and cooking practices,how they arranged their veggie gardens, and about their traditions . She found them fascinating and some became life long friends.
My parents really taught me how to age well and enjoy it ! Stay fit ,stay busy and engaged, be around people and as Mom said ,” if I don’t learn something new everyday it hasn’t been a good day! ” She proudly walked a mile everyday till her late eighties…had to shorten them up as she aged ! Cooked and quilted into her 90’s ! Dad was an avid gardener and woodworker till 90…they both did lots of volunteering as well.
Retirement has been a blessing as it has allowed me to spend lots of time with family, expand on my hobbies of painting ,quilting, baking , gardening,and decorating . I can think of no downside to getting older other than a few aches and pains ,arthritis in my hands gives me grief, and my time here on this planet is getting shorter, but if I could say one thing to those who are young and get a weepy about turning 30 or 40 it’s this….
Embrace your age, learn from your mistakes, don’t take offense to so much, feel gratitude everyday for your life and all the people in it, even the difficult ones you brought into your life to teach you something, love your family as they will be with you through thick and thin, let little ( or big ) grievances go . They just hold you back from finding joy!
I noticed one day as I was thinking back on my life that everytime I began a new decade in my life something big happened to stear my course. Want to know what they were?? Well here goes…age ten…no memories there! Age 20…got married….age 30 had my 3rd and last child …age 40 changed careers and became a Dental Assistant…age 50 ..divorced my husband of 28 yrs …age 60 remarried to a wonderful man !….70 what will you bring ???
I don’t know but not worried either , I plan to live with joy and gratitude and keep expanding my interests.
Well that’s all I’ve got for today, next post I’ll be decorating for Christmas!
Until then, whatever your age and stage in life be HAPPY!
Love to you all !💗 Jaye


















































Believe it or not this room was once 2 very narrow rooms …one…where the tiny window is ..was the bathroom with a 4ft. long roll top bath in it !
As you can see this room tends to be a mish mash of stuff! Also the Grandkids toy room. Hmmmm! Hubbys hat storage too I see!
We did what I call a soft Reno on it 4 years ago just a few months before our wedding .
New faucet and under cabinet lighting ..LEDs of course! I kept the polished nickel cabinet hardware as it was fine and dandy !New fridge and stove …we are waiting for the old dishwasher to pass away but it continues to do its job perfectly !

Behind that knee wall is my basement stairs. They take up almost half the width of the room but I’ve been able to cram alot in here !
Plans are in the works to run the same floor as the kitchen in here and put in a new vanity.For now it is just fine !
Well that’s it …my little piece of Heaven!








Hi everyone ! How are you doing on this beautiful June day ?
I can’t take credit for this tutorial as I follow an amazing lady named Lisa at her blog Farmhouse on Boone, check her out !
Here is our favorite recipe …oh and Grandaughter Clara’s…she requests it every time she has a sleep over!
Keep warm in a low oven till your ready to eat !
I have made pizza crust …tortillas.. bread and muffins with my starter …there are so many recipes on the internet ..pinterest is my favorite resource.
Apple Walnut Muffins









